Secrets of a long-term relationship.

  • Don’t lose your trust to each other. Trusting is one way of saying: “I am giving everything to you even if I have no assurance at all.” If it is once broken, give him/her a chance to put it back again. Everyone deserves a second chance.
  • If you can’t be faithful, just be loyal. If you get attracted to someone, make sure that it won’t last a long time. Remember, you are committed. You may have crushes but your heart must belong to only one. Just one.
  • Whatever challenges may come your way, never ever give up. Breaking up is not a way to solve your problems. If things can be fixed, let it be. But not because you cannot fix it, it doesn’t mean it’s time to give up. Always remember that, there are some things that need time but not distance. If you are really in love, you will find even the smallest chance just to make everything alright. 
  • Act like best friends. Being comfortable with the one you love is one of the best feelings in the world. It gives you the reason not to let go because you share with him the things you cannot express with others. The way he/she listens when you’re speaking is very different than that of others.
  • Understanding plays a major role in a relationship. You have to understand every detail of the situation. Be open minded. See both sides. Don’t make little things, big deal. Whatever he/she says, listen to it. It is what he/she feels. It’s like, don’t get mad if he’s mad. Instead, listen to him. When he’s done, it’s time for you to do what he wants. Kiss him, hug him, make him feel that you’re really sorry and say how much you love him. (Vice versa) Just give and take.
  • Forgive each other. You are not perfect. It is one way of saying: I vow love you for who you are and I am ready to embrace your imperfections. 
  • Efforts mean a lot. Never get tired of giving efforts to the one you love. It gives him/her the feeling that he/she is too important to let go. In addition, big or small efforts, you must appreciate it. Appreciation is one way of showing you love him/her.
  • Keep in your mind all the reasons why you’re still holding. Remember the things that make you fall in love with him/her, the reason why the word temptation doesn’t mean anything, the fact that no one can kiss and hug you more than she/he does and no one can make you fall in love the way he/she does.

This kind of love takes courage. If you are truly in love, no hindrance can make you stop. If you really want something, you will do everything just to have it.

“Do your best during the relationship not after it.”

ang tunay na nagmamahal, hindi alam ang salitang pride.

Bakit?

Kasi alam niyang maraming pwedeng mawala kapag pinairal ang pride.Maraming pwedeng magbago at pwedeng mawala ang taong mahal niya. Kaya bakit siya makikipag tiisan kung pwede naman niyang iisantabi ang pride alang ala sa relasyon nilang dalawa.

Kung ganito ang ka-relasyon o magiging ka-relasyon niyo, wag niyong abusuhin at i-appreciate niyo. Swerte na kayo sa ganitong tao. Hindi lahat nabibigyan ng pagkakataong maintindihan ang “Lunukin ang Pride.” Eto yung mga taong mahal na mahal ka talaga kasi kahit dignidad niya, isasakripisyo niya wag ka lang mawala.

ano ang pag-ibig?

  • Para sa mga single: It takes time. Hindi ito yung tipo ng bagay na minamadali. Dadating ito sa tamang panahon at oras. Kailangan lang maghintay. It is worth the wait. 
  • Para sa mga committed: It’s a responsibility. It takes courage. Hindi sa lahat ng oras palagi kang masaya. Kailangan mo munang masaktan para malaman mo kung ano nga ba ang tunay na pag-ibig. 
  • Para sa mga Martyr: It’s a battlefield. Kung mahal mo talaga ang isang tao, kakayanin mo lahat lahat. You always have to fight  para hindi mawala sayo yung tang mahal na mahal mo.
  • Para sa mga players: It’s just a game. Kung hindi mo mahanap sa isa yung gusto mo, kailangan mong maghanap ng iba. Kung hindi mag work, let go. Walang permanente sa mundo.
  • Para sa mga naniniwala sa pag-ibig: It is life. There is always this one person who will change your perception about love. Yung isang taong papatunayan na meron pang matitino at seryosong magmamahal sayo. Kailangan mo lang bumangon ulit kapag nasaktan ka. Earn the lesson learned and believe in it. Maybe right now, you’re struggling, but as time passes by, you will see that true love is waiting for you on the finish line. 

Yung lalaking hindi nagpupuyat,

pero nagagawang magpuyat MAKAUSAP ka lang. 

Yung nasa jeep ka at may nakikibasa sa tinetext mo.

Oh teh, ikaw na kaya mag-reply sa katext ko oh.

Yung lalaking tatalian yung buhok mo.

“Hindi naman kita iiwan kahit na awayin mo ko lagi eh.”

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Girl : I want you to be my boyfriend forever.

Boy : I don’t.

Girl : Why?

Boy : Because then I can’t be your husband.

A relationship,

 where we can act like lovers and best friends at the same time.

Hindi naman relasyon ang dapat tinatapos,

Kundi problema.

Di naman ako ma-PRIDE eh,

sadyang gusto ko lang matuto siya sa mga kasalanan niya.

Kapag mahal mo nga naman ang isang tao,

Lahat ng kabaliwan at kakornihan nagagawa mo.

Malungkot man o masaya,

Gusto ko maranasan yun na kasama ka.

Nakakamiss pag usapan si *dahon.

#Mei #Inse

Anong latest kay dahon? HAHA. :)




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